If You're Searching for Leadership Training, You've Just Struck Gold.

Connecting Kōrero helps leaders move from feeling disempowered and drained to confident, energised, and ready to grow.

The #1 issue we see in organisations?
Avoided or poorly held conversations.

This is the work that needs to be done—because when you learn to lead these kōrero with clarity and courage, everything changes.

✅ Culture shifts.

✅ Trust builds

✅ Performance lifts.

It will completely transform the way you lead.

The programme is quick and inexpensive on purpose—because every leader deserves access to these tools.

And it’s only the beginning.

Once you’ve laid this foundation, we’ve got deeper-level support to help you keep growing.

Get $2,000+ worth of expert coaching, tools, and strategies for just $497 NZD.

The Hard Truth? Avoiding That Conversation Might Be Hurting You More.

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Have you put off a tough conversation because it felt too stressful?

Addressing behaviour, underperformance, or broken commitments can trigger anxiety. What if you say the wrong thing? What if they react badly? What will everyone think of me? The uncertainty can be overwhelming.

So, you avoid it, but it doesn’t go away. Instead, it eats at you. Your mind replays the worst scenarios, and stress builds, affecting your focus, sleep, and peace of mind.

And when you finally have the conversation, does it lead to change? Are they engaged? Do they listen? Or do you find yourself having the same conversation over and over?

Speaking up is one thing. Being heard—and creating real change—is another.

Here's the truth..

After years of working with leaders, we uncovered a pattern: conversation avoidance is a major cause of burnout, frustration, and dissatisfaction.

Think about it—most of your stress, frustration, and overwhelm likely involve another person. The solution? Having the necessary conversation.

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Feel confident addressing issues

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Delay the conversation

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Feel stressed and anxious when preparing

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Hold back to avoid conflict or discomfort

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Expect tension post conversation

What would it be like if...?

What if you could approach conversations without fear, anxiety, or frustration? What if the emotional weight lifted, allowing you to sleep better, focus, and be fully present every day?

Picture having a practical, simple, and predictable process that fosters deeper connections—where both you and others feel heard, understood, and valued.

Imagine leading with confidence, whether at work or home, through meaningful, connecting kōrero that maintains everyone’s mana.

No more tough, difficult, or courageous conversations—just real, effective ones that create lasting change.

Introducing Connecting Kōrero

Making Conversations Easy and Stress-Free!

Turn stress into confidence and avoidance into connection. Learn to navigate important conversations effortlessly—strengthening relationships at work and home.

Labeling them courageous, difficult, or tough makes them feel like a battle. But they don’t have to be. With our approach, conversations can be mentally, emotionally, and interpersonally rewarding for everyone.

The result? No more stress or negative emotions—just meaningful discussions where everyone feels valued, heard, and understood.

Confidence & Clarity

Learn structured steps, tools, and techniques to navigate kōrero with ease. Our simple frameworks help you start and guide conversations, stay calm under pressure, and finally have the conversations you’ve been putting off—with confidence.

 Emotional Regulation

Learn to manage emotions, reframe your thinking, and create kōrero that maintains mana. Our techniques help you make better decisions, shift perspectives, reduce stress, and enhance overall well-being.

Practical Application

This programme goes beyond theory—it’s a hands-on learning experience for real situations. Walk away with practical skills you can apply immediately to tackle core issues with confidence.

Get $2,000+ worth of expert coaching, tools, and strategies for just $497 NZD.

First Week Results

Hi, my aha moment was about lifting the mana. I love the idea that is important to lift and maintain the mana of the other person and not make them feel bad. I was very touched about point 3, focusing on what’s good about the person and changing the wairua in the room. Really great to go into the kōrero with a positive mindset and set a positive tone.

I had a kōrero with a team member yesterday about her performance. I had been feeling very negative and frustrated about it. I wrote down my 8 things, visualised it going positively and what that would look like going well, having an open conversation. Admittedly I found it hard for my brain to not wonder into the ‘worst case scenario’ but I didn’t dwell on it!

Had the kōrero which went well, will be having weekly check-ins now and will remember to be curious and ask lots of questions. 🙂 Overall, I was pleased with the result as I always felt so awful prior to having conversations like this.

Wow, where do I start? I am familiar with a lot of this kōrero, but of course, it is in the application that matters to me most right now. My ah-ha is ‘stay open, stay curious and stay safe’ in a nutshell. Processing and regulating ‘emotions’ will be ongoing for me and it will be a great breakthrough in my ‘connecting kōrero’. I’m going to practice with my mokopuna first and then whai manaaki. Noho ora mai.

Get Connecting in 3 Easy Steps

Commit just 1–2 hours a week and start transforming your kōrero today!

Step 1: Learn Anytime

Every Monday, unlock a new pre-recorded video lesson—watch anytime, anywhere.

Step 2: Apply Content

Follow guided action steps, use proven scripts, and reflection tools to build confidence for your conversations.

Step 3: Share & Support

Share your insights and learn from other’s experiences how Connecting Kōrero is helping them as they practice.

Get $2,000+ worth of expert coaching, tools, and strategies for just $497 NZD.

Key Topics You’ll Explore

Learn 4 conversation-changing practices that you can immediately apply at work or home.

✅ Reframing Conversations: Shift your mindset from seeing conversations as difficult to connecting and trust-building experiences.

✅ Preparation & Emotional Regulation: Master our unique preparation framework and emotional regulation techniques to have any conversation with calmness and clarity.

✅ Impact of Avoidance: Learn the unseen impact of avoiding important conversations on yourself, your team, and your loved ones.

✅ The Reflective Process: Apply the power of reflection to identify your progress and learning and gain valuable insights from our community of like-minded individuals.

What Our Participants Say About Connecting Kōrero

Connecting Kōrero changed the game for me! No more overthinking, no more stressing—I’ve learned how to approach tough kōrero with confidence, protect my mana, and actually create better outcomes (without the awkwardness or regret).

This isn’t just a course—it’s a toolkit for life. Whether you work in healthcare, leadership, or community mahi or just want to handle conversations better (yes, even the ones at the dinner table!), I highly recommend it!

Pritika Singh-Nand

This course has provided me with some amazing strategies for having connecting kōrero with my colleagues. I can absolutely see the benefits of this course and how the strategies can make a difference in my workplace as we continue to use them.

I will be highly recommending that more of my colleagues and my manager sign up for this because the more of us who know the strategies, the easier it will be to implement them and see and feel the changes to our kaupapa.

Kim Tanner

I would recommend ‘Connecting Korero’ for Whanau, Hapu, and Iwi. Everything I have learnt in the last 4 weeks on this course is greater than what I have learnt in my lifetime and that’s a long time. Life experience helps but this course puts everything into ‘action’. The resources are totally relevant.

Kessie Kohu

I jumped into Connecting Kōrero because nothing happens without successful connections in communication and there were conversations in my life I could not have including breakups, creating new relationships and death.  

Being in the program was easy and gave me the space to play in my life with these difficult conversations including some simple strategies around setting up the space for the conversation, getting curious about the other person and regulating our own emotions.  

The course was easy to follow and the feedback was very helpful. It was also an opportunity to get insights into how others were going and what they were using the strategies for.  

I’m a lot more calmer in myself in difficult conversations and am more willing to have these conversations now. I’m grateful to the Kānuka Team and appreciate their support. Nga mihi. 

Shanandore Brown

Trust them! A lot of thought goes into what we are given.  Their approach is different from what I have experienced over the years, they get to the core and very common sense techniques. This isn’t just a course—it’s a toolkit for life. Whether you work in healthcare, leadership, or community mahi or just want to handle conversations better (yes, even the ones at the dinner table!). I highly recommend it!

Sylvia Willison

Programme Start Date

The next programme will begin on 10 March 2025.

Get $2,000+ worth of expert coaching, tools, and strategies for just $497 NZD.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the Connecting Kōrero programme?
The Connecting Kōrero programme is a four-week online journey designed to help you reframe and confidently navigate difficult conversations. It combines proven tools, practical steps, and a supportive community to help you build trust and deepen relationships through impactful communication.
Who is the programme for?
This programme is for leaders at any stage of their journey who are ready to improve their communication skills. Whether you’re navigating tough conversations in professional settings, within whānau, or personal relationships, you’ll gain valuable insights and tools that will benefit you and those around you.
What will I gain from participating?
You’ll gain practical tools to approach conversations with clarity, confidence, and calmness. Early on in the programme, you’ll feel equipped to handle essential discussions in a way that strengthens trust, lifts mana, and fosters connection.
What topics are covered during the 4-weeks?
Reframing Conversations: Transforming the mindset around difficult discussions into opportunities for connection and trust.

Preparation & Emotional Regulation: Tools and techniques to prepare for conversations with clarity and composure.

Impact of Avoidance: Understanding the hidden costs of avoiding crucial discussions—on yourself, your team, and your relationships.

The Importance of Saying the Hard Thing: Learning how to address tough topics directly and constructively while maintaining respect and trust.

Holding People to Account: Building the confidence to set boundaries and expectations effectively, ensuring accountability in all interactions.

The Aftermath: Reflecting on outcomes, refining your approach, and sharing progress within the supportive community.

How is the programme delivered?
The programme is fully online with pre-recorded video lessons released weekly, guided action steps, and an exclusive community for ongoing support.
When does the programme start?
Programme dates are available in the section above the FAQs.
How much time will I need to commit each week?
Plan to dedicate 1–2 hours per week to watch video lessons, complete guided actions, and engage with the community.
Is the video content live or pre-recorded?
There are no live sessions; all content is pre-recorded and available to access at your convenience during the week.
Why aren't there live calls?

To keep this program affordable and accessible. Live calls significantly increase the cost (usually doubling it), and we want as many people as possible to benefit from these skills. Instead, we provide structured content, interactive activities, and community support—so you still get results at a fraction of the price.

What technology or tools do I need to participate?
You’ll need a reliable internet connection and a device capable of streaming videos and participating in online discussions (e.g., a laptop, tablet, or smartphone).
Do I need any prior knowledge or experience to join?
No prior knowledge or experience is required—just a willingness to learn and engage.
How many people will be in the programme?
The group size varies but is kept manageable to ensure a supportive and interactive
experience.
Will there be opportunities to connect with others in the group?
Yes, the exclusive community space allows for sharing experiences, giving feedback, and celebrating wins with fellow participants.
Is participation in discussions mandatory?
To make the most of the programme, we highly recommend active engagement by sharing one post each week and commenting on two posts from others in the community. These steps will help you deepen your learning and connection with the group.
How much does the programme cost?
This four-week programme delivers over $2,000 worth of expert coaching, tools, and strategies to transform your wellbeing and leadership—all for just $497.
Are there any payment plans or discounts available?
If you’d prefer to pay via invoice or would like to enquire about group discounts, please contact us directly with your request.
How do I register for the programme?
Click the “Join Now for $497” button to secure your spot.
What is the cancellation or refund policy?
If you are unable to complete the programme with your chosen cohort, you’re welcome to join the next one at no additional cost.
What makes this programme unique?
The programme blends practical techniques, emotional regulation strategies, and culturally inspired perspectives to create meaningful change in how you approach conversations.
How will this programme help me connect better with others?
You’ll develop the skills to turn tense discussions into opportunities for trust-building and connection, fostering deeper relationships both at work and home.
Can I apply what I learn to work and personal life?
Absolutely! The tools and principles are designed to be adaptable for use in professional and personal contexts.
Are there resources or materials provided?
Yes, you’ll receive conversation scripts, reflection tools, and templates to guide you through various types of conversations.
Who can I contact if I have questions during the programme?
You can reach out to the programme team directly for any questions or assistance during the course.
What kind of support is available during the course?
The exclusive community provides peer support, and the programme team is available to assist with any challenges or questions.

Prefer a more personalised approach? You can apply for 1:1 premium coaching instead. Learn more here: Premier 1-on-1 Coaching with Wiremu.

What are the next steps after the programme?
We offer a live, four-week group coaching programme as a natural progression to continue building your skills and confidence in conversations.

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